A YOUNG BOY COMMITTED SUICIDE AFTER KILLING HER FEMALE FRIEND

MUZAFFARABAD: A young man named Haris committed suicide after he shoots dead his female friend here in Muzaffarabad on Tuesday

According to sources, Haris shot dead his 20 year old female friend at CMH Road and later killed himself a few yards away. The girl is said to a student of B.Sc. 

The body was shifted to a Combined Military Hospital whereas the investigation of the incident is underway.

People behavior

I was there at that moment.  It was terrifying scene as there was blood everywhere on the road but the most condemnable thing was people behavior.

Girl was dead and her body was lying on stairs. There was big crowd around, nobody even tried to cover her but were clicking photos.

Same people were doing with boy too even he was little live but nobody tried to take him hospital but were waiting for police to come. People take these things lightly nowadays.

Why young people commit suicides

Today when we are living in 2014, every boy and girl have different gadgets in their hands which are misused. Suicide caused in result of failure in relationship which seems in this case too. Wrong expectations and emotional decisions lead to this. Relatives of people who attempt or commit suicide often blame themselves or become very angry. They may see the suicide attempt as selfish. However, people who try to commit suicide often mistakenly believe that they are doing their friends and relatives a favor by taking themselves out of the world.

About 80 per cent of young people who complete suicide told someone they intended to kill themselves.

Things we should do

Education is key. Talk to your kids about the dangers and responsibilities associated with using cell phone and other gadgets. Tell them what acceptable and unacceptable behavior is. Without defined guidelines, your youth could wind up a victim. 

Who was your son talking to at 2:30 in the morning? Did you know someone was sending your daughter explicit text messages? You could look through their phone, however they will simply delete their call or text logs if they think you are snooping.

Awareness and counseling sessions

Parents should take care of their children. They should check them properly that what are they doing or what are they going to do. Moreover schools and colleges must arrange awareness and counseling sessions for student about the relationships.

We should teach our youth on Islamic values but we always try to avoid the topic of relationships between youngsters which is strictly banned in Islam.

ALLAH   Show us right path. Ameen